In an old
book I have kept for a few decades, “Images of Childhood, an
illustrated social history” (Mayflower Books, New York 1979) the
authoress (A. Schorsch, of the Pennsylvania Historical and Museum
Commission) uses a collection of art works to explore the changing
attitudes towards children through history. Most modern parents would
be shocked to learn that up to the Reformation in the sixteenth
century “the child is nothing more than a lower animal” -
“the infant mewling and puking in the nurse's arms” (Shakespeare)
and “violence to children from parents and teachers was socially
acceptable”. The “domestic trinity” consisting of father,
mother and child and the family house as we know it today did not
exist until well into the 17th century.
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"The Mother", 1901 |
I grew up in
a time and in a place where there was not much of human rights which
a hard life would allow people to have. Children shared what little
they had as well as the responsibilities of looking after younger
siblings. Hardships made them stand together and taking up
responsibilities made them mature early.
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"Child with a dove", 1901 |
Later, I was
trained in Europe to be a paediatrician, a medical professional
representing the rights of children. I learned about
“siblings' rivalry” from child psychologists in affluent
societies. Back in 1980 in the UK I was involved in a court case and
had to give evidence about a child brought to the hospital whom I
examined for “non accidental injuries”. I did not find any
significant injury but the Chinese parents were charged under
suspicion of child abuse, having used measures of corporal punishment
for educational purposes. Some time ago I heard about the parents of
a Chinese immigrant family being warned by the local authorities for
allegedly mishandling their eldest teenage daughter. That she has to
baby-sit the younger siblings at night while the parents are still at
work in the restaurant is violating German laws governing the rights
of children.
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"Art and Solidarity", 1960 |
The child is
part of the family. Parental attitudes and the treatment of
children are under the direct influence of society and culture.
It is impossible to discuss the health and illness of children
without understanding the social structures and conditions of human
existence of the times. Looking back into history helps to put our
own attitudes into perspectives. There could be more than one way of
looking at things.
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"Grand Maternity" 1963 |
I have put
together here a small album of five paintings by Picasso which
touch me as images of childhood and family.”The child with a
dove” and “The mother” belong to his very early
works in 1901. “Grand Maternity”(1963) could be presented
again when we discuss about motherly love around Mother's Day. “Art
and Solidarity” (1960) impresses me as a portrait of the
domestic trinity of father, mother and child.
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"Bouquet of Peace" |
With the “Bouquet
of Peace” I wish all children and parents love and peace in the
family.
Dear
parents, do you also have images of your family to share?
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